So, I’ve been thinking a bit about hope and love recently, and that got me to thinking about trust, which got me to thinking about full hearted generosity – and the all too human inclination to hold just a little back, you know just in case, just so we don’t look foolish, just so we have a little something in reserve, just in case. And I came across this story …
Esme and Biron were two young children whose families lived next door to each other. One day, Biron was shooting marbles in the park across the street from their homes, when Esme walked over to see what he was up to. Esme was eating some candies from a paper sack, and watched him for a while. After a few minutes, Biron offered to trade Esme his marbles for her candy. Esme thought about it and agreed.
But Biron pocketed his favorite marble before they made the exchange. Esme on the other hand simple gave Biron her whole bag of candy in the exchange.
That night, Esme slept deeply and peacefully, while Biron tossed and turned and could not sleet at all. He was haunted by doubts about whether or not Esme had hidden some candy from him the way he had kept back is favorite marble.
The moral of the story of course is that if you don’t give your very best one hundred percent in your relationships and in your interactions with others, you will be haunted by doubts about whether the other person has given their full measure as well. So, do your best, give it all you’ve got, and you will be able to sleep at night with a full and open heart and a clear conscience.
Dream well my friends! Live full throttle with an open heart and a peaceful soul!